one of the best gifts is an unexpected free day, or free morning, even. my tech rehearsal got pushed back by 4 hours, allowing me to sleep in and go to brunch with B, run a few errands, and just NOT RUSH for just a couple of hours.

the thing B and i most want is more space in our lives. it proves to be elusive, no doubt because of some self-defeating tendency (#firstworldproblems). i’ve often noted that a task always expands to fill the time allotted for it. i think that applies to life, too. life expands to fit the space allowed it.